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The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 11

“The Most Dramatic Bachelor Finale Ever”

This episode begins with Chris Harrison announcing that there could be a wedding tonight after the final rose. Neil Lane is in the house, as are both girls’ families and a cheesy wedding arch covered in, you guessed it, red roses.

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But first, we go back to Jamaica where Ben, sporting some “edgy” facial hair, will repeat himself over-and-over about how confused he is at being in love with two women for the next two hours.

I get that this whole “being in love with both women” is part of the ruse and thus part of the job but Ben comes across as a real simpleton.

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As the audience though, we’re supposed to buy into the whole idea that Ben doesn’t know which person he’s “more in love with” until the last hour. It’s a ridiculous concept. He knows.

Ben’s mom is not impressed that he has told two women he’s in love with them, and that she has to basically lie by omission when she talks to them both.

“It’s really disturbing to me” – Ben’s mom.

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Lauren tells Ben’s mom, while they hold hands, that she is ready to get engaged, her hair extensions blowing in the wind. I wonder if Ben has even seen Lauren without those extensions? I feel like this could lead to buyer’s remorse.

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JoJo arrives to meet Ben’s parents with a much smaller floral arrangement than Lauren. This is a red flag.

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“He’s my best friend” – JoJo to Ben’s dad.

JoJo gets a better edit with Ben’s parents than Lauren did as the producers attempt to manipulate us. We’re onto you.

It’s final date time and Ben is super stressed on his date with Lauren. Lauren suddenly realizes that Ben could be in Love with JoJo as well. Just now.

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“I prayed a lot over these past few days” – Ben.

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They have an emotional goodbye and Lauren is spiralling, in tears, after he leaves.

“Bye, beautiful.” – Ben to Lauren.

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I think Lauren was the front runner until the overnight dates where he had a reeeeaaaally good time with JoJo.

Ben is still praying for clarity when he meets JoJo the next day.

“Hi, beautiful.” – Ben to JoJo.

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They encounter a local while driving down a jungle road and Ben quickly speeds away.

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“Baaaaaaaaabe!” – JoJo to Ben every five minutes.

JoJo asks Ben if everything is good and he tells her that’s a loaded question and she starts to freak out.

“I’ve been scared a few times in my life”  – JoJo.

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JoJo seems more aware of the situation she’s in than Lauren.

That night, after talking on the couch and Ben and JoJo close themselves in the bathroom where they have a “private conversation” caught by their microphones.

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JoJo asks Ben if he loves Lauren too and he says yes.

“I’m so tired of competing” – JoJo, unaware she’s on a game show where you compete with other women for one dull dude.

Ben says goodbye to JoJo and leaves, holding a mystery stainless steel item, leaving JoJo in tears as well.

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The next morning is D-day. Ben meets with Neil Lane and his briefcase of rings. He chooses a gaudy, fuggo ring.

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At this point Ben is definitely playing up his relationship with JoJo more that his relationship with Lauren.

We see the girls in their “proposal dresses” and JoJo definitely has the getting dumped dress on, she looks like a Dallas beauty pageant contestant compared to Lauren’s classic electric blue, floor-length column dress which is obviously meant to say “wife material.”

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Then it’s Ben’s turn and he utters the proverbial “but,” and tells JoJo the bad news, that he loves Lauren more.

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JoJo has really dodged a bullet. A bullet with boring written all over it.

The saddest thing about this is the stretch limo that JoJo had to ride off in.

In classic dumped girl on the Bachelor finale, JoJo doesn’t let Ben have it like she’s entitled to. It’s textbook Stockholm Syndrome.

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“I could’ve married JoJo and been happy” – Ben.

After a lot of boring talk he proposes to Lauren and slips that fug ring on her white nail polished fingers. That manicure would also be a deal-breaker for me.

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Then they exchanged a lot of “you’re my person!” “We’re engaged!” “I love you.” And “I’m so lucky,” to each other. It’s pretty nauseating but it also makes you realize that these two boring basics are perfect for eachother.

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The Bachelor, you did it again.

As predicted, JoJo was announced as the next Bachelorette.

 

The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 10

The Women Tell All Shit Show

This is mostly a clip show and doesn’t advance the actual story so I’ll just give you the highlights.

All the girls you’d completely forgotten about were back, like Lace.

Leah says she and Lauren B. are all good now, after she back-stabbed her on the show. Uh huh.

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“Being a mom is my jam.” –  Amanda

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Lauren H. brought her chicken, Sheila, which flapped around a bit but mostly perched on her lap. 

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Chris Harrison give Jubilee a “you’re good enough” pep talk and some of the women accused Jubes of bragging about being the only “full black girl” to go this far. 

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Jamie had her boobs out and attempted to get as much camera time as she could. She’ll wind up on Bachelor in Paradise for sure.

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The girls all gang up on Olivia, who reveals she was bullied severely as a child and was now being bullied on social media. 

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The Twins still have beef with Olivia, she apologizes to all the girls on the show who felt wronged by her.

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Chris Harrison asks Lace to go on Paradise. Of course she’ll go. 

Some guy has a tattoo of Lace on his side which he shows to her after taking his shirt off. This cannot be real.

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Caila is dragged on stage and made to watch her flashback reel with Ben, including the recent break up, which she’d never watched before and seemed like she was not over it at all, whispering her answers to Chris Harrison. 

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Chris Harrison is practically salivating over Caila still being in emotional pain over Ben, he loves it.

Ben comes out and and says he’s more in love than he’s ever been and “would marry that woman tomorrow if I could.”

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If Caila is named the next Bachelorette I’m boycotting.

 

The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 9

Nothing spells romance like the revolving door that is Overnight Dates

This week we travel to the country of romance, that’s right, Jamaica, (huh?) where the re-branded “fantasy suite” dates, now known as “overnight dates,” will take place.

For many, myself included, this is the definitive episode of the series, where all the things that scream creepy sexism and male privilege are presented to viewers as if they’re kosher.

Ben begins with a montage where he reminisces about the ladies, saying that Caila’s fears that she can’t love are basically a deal-breaker and that seeing Lauren for the first time was the closest he’d come to love at first sight and that he looks at her with “googly eyes.” He then says when he’s around JoJo he feels more himself than ever but her brother’s were huge cock blockers.

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Ben kicks off his pre-overnight date woo-ing with an Apocalypse Now meets Deliverance-themed float down a river on a bamboo raft with Caila, who’s not exactly a barrel of laughs today.

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Since they’re in Jamaica, Ben should smoke some ganja with all the girls so he can see who’s good and who’s bad on weed. This is an important thing to know about your future spouse.

Ben, in one of many v-neck t-shirts, describes his relationship with Caila as, “the deepest relationship I have.” Maybe he smoked some ganja on his own.

There’s lots of “so-and-so and I’s relationship,” throughout the episode, as if that’s a thing. At one point Ben also pronounces “especially,” “expecially.” 

Ben and Caila stop in the middle of nowhere to eat some jerk meat with their fingers while they talk about feelings. Caila’s probably really excited for Ben to sex the other two girls on this trip, which is really romantic. No wonder she’s in a bad mood.

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Later Caila does what she does best, attacks Ben with kisses like an over-excited puppy dog. It seems a bit annoying, like you’d like it at first but then it would get to be too much and you’d want to put that puppy back on the floor.

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I wonder if Caila is as enthusiastic about other things as she is about kissing?

After confronting Caila about why she was being such a Debbie Downer on their river boat date, Caila says a whole lot of words followed by, “I’m in love with you.” Awkwardly, Ben just smiles and kisses her.

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They retire to their suite, with Caila already de-robed and just in her bikini as fireworks are going off outside – an over done trope of this show meant to celebrate the romance being cooked up.

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The next morning we see a close-up of Caila’s manky sandals on the floor – another much-loved Bachelor trope, alluding to the sex that’s been had.

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Caila tells Ben she loves him again but he doesn’t say it back. SO AWKS. 

Next up, Ben and Lauren have an eco-themed date, releasing baby turtles into the ocean. Ben acts like he’s never seen a turtle before. Actually, maybe he hasn’t.

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Lauren, who’s also agonizing about wanting to tell Ben she loves him, let’s him know that she’s struggling being in a contest with two other girls. 

“You are legitimately the man of my dreams” – Lauren to Ben.

Ben and Lauren head to their suite at Sandals All-You-Can-Eat Resort where Lauren finally tells Ben she is completely in love with him, making what they’re about to do palatable for viewers because we haven’t advanced at all from the Victorian era.

Ben admits that he has also been in love with Lauren for quite some time now, then these two huge dorks lie back and swap “I love you”s for the next five minutes which is nauseating.

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The editors are really ramping up Ben and Lauren’s story at this point but we all know there’s a twist coming next week so I’m bracing myself.

Just to let you know that these two also probably boned, we get a close-up of the Lauren’s dress and shoes on the floor by the bed and Ben’s clothes strewn about, even though she’s dressed and has done her hair the next morning, while they kiss over their breakfast tray.

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“Ben’s my person.” – Lauren. 

Last but not least, because she’s the best, Ben and JoJo get the dramatic chopper ride over the island. Yet another romance-inducing trope the show is known for.

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JoJo also tells Ben, in a round-about way, that she loves him and he gives her the ILY back. She’s so shocked she says, “what?” and starts to cry.

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JoJo calls Ben “babe” exclusively from this point on. I hate to say this but JoJo seems a bit thirsty, to be honest, which is weird because she’s attractive and has the most going on.

I don’t really buy that Ben loves JoJo but they’ll definitely take things to the next level tonight.

Ben throws a roadblock up in the way of needing to have her family’s support, meaning her weirdo brothers.

“Hearing Ben say I love you has been one of the most incredible life moments.” – JoJo.

Later, they make out in their suite’s extra large hot tub before taking it to the bedroom where Ben pulls the curtains closed on us. Rude.

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The next morning JoJo exclaims, “you gave me so much more than I expected yesterday.” Little does she know he also gave the same thing to Lauren. 

Ben says goodbye to JoJo and walks off in his capri sweat pants to do some thinking.

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Ben, echoing the words of every bachelor before him, says that, “it’s so weird to be in love with two women at the same time.” 

Calia’s intuition is broken and she decides to pay Ben a visit. She thinks Ben is in love with her, but really he’s about to break up with her.

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This being taped is really Ben’s saving grace because I think we all know Caila is the type of person who would want to talk about exactly what went wrong between the two of them for the next two days.

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As the car takes her way she completely unravels, whispering to herself over and over again, “I thought this was it, I thought this was it.” The weirdest aspect to this whole thing is that as cooked as it is, the reactions of hurt feelings are real.
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The episode ends with both JoJo and Lauren telling Chris Harrison that Ben told them he loves them while he feigns surprise. 

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WHO WILL GET THE FINAL ROSE?! TUNE IN NEXT WEEK!

The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 8

Hometown dates: Four girls, one dull dude and lots of crazy

The first awkward hometown date with Amanda is in Laguna Beach, even though she lives about 30 minutes inland in the daggy suburban enclave of Rancho Santa Margarita. Home of hideous, matching, side-by-side, faux-mediterranean tract-style houses.

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Ben meets Amanda’s brats who are dressed in identical outfits with identical hairdos. Already pretty weird. It’s like she’s trying to trick him into thinking there’s just one kid.

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My two-cents here, from personal experience, is you have to be ALL THE WAY IN to want to take on someone else’s kids. So unless you’re the “prize,” AKA The Bachelor or The Bachelorette, you’re not picking the person with baggage. You’re just not.

After a day that involves crying toddlers in a minivan it’s pretty clear Ben is all the way out.

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Next stop is Portland to meet Lauren B.’s family. This is by far the best date of the four and Lauren’s family seem the most relatively normal and likeable.

They go to the Whiskey “Libary,” as Lauren calls it, where Ben probably orders a Jack and Coke.

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Later, with her family, Ben tears up talking to Lauren’s sister about how lucky he feels. He then rests his head on Lauren’s hot sister’s shoulder. Another reason he’ll pick Lauren.

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Lauren tells her sister that she thinks Ben is her “person,” one of the cringiest things you can say.

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Next stop is Hudson, Ohio to meet crazy Caila’s family. Wow are we in for a treat here.

First off she takes him to her “special bench” where they have a special kiss, like they’re 14. Her “special bench” isn’t even a bench, by the way. It’s a swing.

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Then she takes him to her dad’s toy factory where they build a plastic toy house replica of their future marital abode. I don’t even know what’s happening.

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Finally Ben meets Caila’s parents. Her Filipino mom has adult braces and her brother’s a little kid (accident). When we meet Caila’s dad, who I’m fairly creeped out by, the whole toy factory thing makes sense.

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Next stop is Dallas to meet JoJo’s fam and the whole thing seems cooked to me, starting with the tragic long-stem red roses and letter from her ex-boyfriend, begging her to get back together with him, followed by lots of pacing around talking to herself, crying and finally a phone call to Chad just as Ben is arriving.

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JoJo’s brothers are creepily over-excited to see her when she and Ben arrive at their parents’ house. Also, they’re huge weirdos.

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After lots of awkward and confrontational conversations in different rooms of the house, JoJo’s oldest brother calls Ben out for brainwashing the women and not having the same feelings for JoJo as she does for him. I mean he’s right but that’s how this thing works.

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Ben is clearly never stepping foot in that house again. JoJo is now a front-runner to be the Bachelorette.

At the rose ceremony, the final rose comes down to Amanda and JoJo and baby voice, predictably, is sent packing.

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Amanda, angry that she’s only being told now that she’s not going any further, also doesn’t realize that’s how the show works.

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The most depressing part is that Amanda had said she would say yes if Ben got down on one knee tonight.

Ben is a big baby, crying after she leaves and saying “I can’t talk about it.”

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Next week is the ultra-weird, misogynistic “fantasy suite” dates, stay tuned!

The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 3

The rise of Jubilee and the claws come out.

In classic week three happenings, insecurities begin to flare and the catty is out of the box.

The girls have started to figure out that Olivia sucks, and we the audience are repeatedly treated to her narcissistic ramblings to the camera about how great she is and how her connection with Ben is the strongest, all delivered in the world’s most annoying nasal voice.

But this episode is really about Jubilee. This is the first time an African American girl has ever really been considered as a serious contender on this show, but are we buying their connection or has this been manufactured by ABC to combat the flack they repeatedly get over this issue? Time will tell.

Jubilee announces that if she gets the one-on-one date card she’ll probably be the happiest she’s been in her life. Huge red flag statement.

Lauren B., the flight attendant, gets the first one-on-one date card and Olivia pretends to be really excited for her. Insert eye roll.

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She and Ben take off in a convertible Mustang, her hair blowing in her face the whole time. Convertibles are the worst for dates. A World War I era biplane is waiting for them and apparently Lauren B. is terrified even though she flies for a living.

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Ben, wearing his “hope” bracelet, goes in for the first kiss in the back of the plane as they do a fly-by over the mansion. All I can think is she must be freezing in that tank top.

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After the plane ride Lauren B.’s nose is all red because she was so cold.

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Cut to a Jacuzzi in the middle of a field somewhere and we see Ben’s tattoo on his rib cage, a sexy quote from the Bible, Old Testament Proverbs 16:3, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” Christian edgy.

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Cut to the dinner date and Lauren B. explains to Ben that she is from a family of really basic people and Ben drops his pastor into the conversation and tells Lauren B. “It’s been cool not just to look at you and laugh with you, but being with you.”

Lucy Angel, whoever the fuck that is, plays them a private concert where they slow dance to bad country music and make out like they’re at their high school prom. Everyone watching fast forwards.

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Meanwhile back at the mansion, Caila starts losing her shit and crying whilst talking to JoJo and telling her that it’s just hitting her that there are other girls there and she might get her heart broken. Bitch, please.

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Jubilee looks suicidal again that her name wasn’t on the group date card. Later she’s in tears saying, “I’m so much more complicated than anybody else here.” No one would argue with that.

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A soccer-themed group date is announced, so boring. Lauren H. says that she has “zero ball-handling skills.” I bet.

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Balls are flying everywhere, Emily twin blocks a bunch of goals and after a sudden-death round Olivia’s team wins.
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The losing team misses out on the cocktail party where shocker, Olivia snatches Ben up for the first alone-time.

While she’s away, Amber, who has really bad hair and shouldn’t be picking on anyone’s appearance, tells the other girls that Olivia has fat toes and then Haley says, in an interview, that she can tell Olivia has fake boobs and also has bad breath. Claws. Are. Out.

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Jami turns double agent and tells Olivia about the bitchy comments, sending her into a insecurity spiral, replying “Am I aggressive? Yeah. Do I have bad toes? Yeah.”

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Ben and Amber kiss but it’s more Amber kissing him. I’m shocked she gets the group date rose which I think is just false hope for her. Amber’s a trouble-maker who knows she’s not going to win, she’s there to make TV drama.

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Back at the mansion, Jubilee, who is sitting around on-camera with zit cream all over her face, gets the one-on-one date card and goes full-manic.

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On the morning of their date Jubilee is acting like her socially anxious, weird self, rubbing the rest of the girls the wrong way with some of her comments. She’s not a girl’s girl, she might not even be all that into people.

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They take a chopper to a baller health spa where they eat canapés. Jubilee, who’s not the most sophisticated, tries one with a tiny bit of caviar which she has to immediately spit out on a napkin like a child. Nothing annoys me more than adults making a huge display of something they don’t like the taste of. Calm the fuck down.

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Next they get into the hot tub and Jubilee’s stripper tattoos are revealed. They move to the pool and do some making out.

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Later that night, Jubilee opens up to Ben about her sad childhood and he seems enthralled by her broken bird story and hands her the rose. My prediction is this girl is a bit too damaged and complicated for Ben, despite him claiming that he likes complex people with layers. I’m just not buying it.

The next morning all the bitches are shocked that Jubilee got a rose, with Lauren H. saying, “it’s insane to me, it’s like literally insane,” and notes that Jubilee seems to be pulling away from all the other girls. Lauren H., who is the epitome of a wannabe soccer mom, says she knows Ben “wants a wife who can be friends with all the other soccer moms.”

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Ben arrives for the rose ceremony cocktail party and puts  a real downer vibe on the night, announcing that two close family friends from back home died in an accident last night.

Most of the girls see this as the perfect opportunity to console Ben and show them how sensitive they are, with the exception of Olivia who is the first to whisk him away to let him know that she hates her legs, that people have written blogs about how she has “cankles,” while almost fake crying, and finishes with “I try to be strong all the time, but it’s the scariest thing ever.” If we weren’t sure if Olivia was a narcissist, we are now.

I love Olivia so much, she is completely unaware about how unlikeable she is and thinks she totally has this in the bag.

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This was huge turn-off for Ben, who says this is not exactly what he wants to talk about, given what he’s gone through today.

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Back in the room with the group, the camera spends a lot of time focusing on Jubilee sitting morosely on her own and highlighting her isolation tactics while zooming in on her boobs in her low-cut dress every so often.

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Before long though, she’s taking Ben to a secluded area outside, where a massage table is conveniently set up and gives him a massage in his suit shirt with her long, acrylic nails. It looks like a terrible massage.

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Becca, JoJo and Jami creep up and spy on the situation and two seconds later everyone in the house is alerted. All the girls are not happy that Jubilee is stealing their time with Ben when she’s safe with a rose already.

Soon Jami is dispatched to go down and interrupt the massage but it’s ending anyway with Ben announcing, “that was just incredible, it’s like my favorite thing in the world.” Sorry girls, Jubliee won this one.

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A little later Amber decides she needs to talk to Jubilee, finding her outside on a couch covered in a blanket, all alone, and tells her that she has to come and talk with all the girls which Jubes is having none of. She’s had army training, she knows an ambush when she smells one and bolts upstairs, barricading herself in a bathroom saying “I don’t know what you guys are doing but it ain’t cute. It’s ridicalous,” as she goes.

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“Jubilee got a rose last night, so she’s just cocky as fuck.” – Lace.

“It’s the first night ever that I have a rose and I should be giddy as fuck right now and I’m not because of this stupid situation, it’s just not fair.” – Amber.

“He shouldn’t have to be dealing with this right now.” – Emily.

Amber comes up to the bathroom to explain to Jubilee, who is now being consoled by Ben, that she just wanted to talk to her. Jubilee starts to cry. Amber explains to Ben and Jubilee why everyone is annoyed with her, basically signing her death warrant. If there’s one thing you want to do on this show, it’s stay out of the drama.

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Next, a crying Lace takes Ben outside to say she has a lot of work to do on herself and that going home might be easier at this point, delivering the line of the night again “Like my tattoo says, you can’t love someone else until you truly love yourself.” Basic bitches everywhere nod in unison.

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The roses are handed out to aspring soccer mom Lauren H., baby voiced-single mom Amanda, Haley twin, Becca virgin, Emily twin, boring Rachel, crazy Caila, JoJo, Tall Jennifer and Leah with the too-dark eyebrows and last but not least, Olivia.

Olivia has decided that Ben is giving her secret signs to let her know that she is more special, like squeezing her knee slightly when he got up off the couch on the group date and squeezing her waist when he hugged her after he gave her the final rose. She’s a maniac.

Jami and Shushana are this week’s rejects.

Jami, who’s a bit dim, spirals after not getting a rose, saying “My lesson from this is don’t ever expect anything from humans, I’m going to start adopting cats now.” Girls with cats everywhere nod in unison.

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See you on Bachelor in Paradise, girl.

 

The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 2

Olivia’s big mouth and the two Laces.

Week one gets off to a strong start with some front runners breaking away from the pack. We learn that one of the twins thinks that “Ben is the greatest bachelor on the planet of history,” and JoJo announces that “If you had a list, he checks off every single list.” 

The biggest news though, is we find out there are actually two Laces. Lace tells us that that actually wasn’t her on the first night, it was the “other” Lace.

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Newsflash: Ben is into being fun and goofy and that really shows on the first horrendous group date, the back to high school challenge, complete with plenty of really dumb sexual innuendos in the chemistry class portion and the bobbing for apples portions where we find out “Jackie’s not great with her mouth, unfortunately.”

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JoJo and Becca, two of the hottest girls pair up to fail the U.S. geography test. Are we shocked?

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What is Mandi wearing??

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The winner of this date is crowned “Homecoming Queen,” which is apparently all of these girls’ dream. But there can only be one queen and today it’s Mandi. This will be her high point on the show, as well as in life.

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Cut to the group date cocktail party that night, where true colors shine. Becca comes with her A game and a very tight, short dress. Don’t be fooled by Becca’s chill, easy-going, stoner demeanour, she’s in it to win it.

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Tall person Jennifer and Ben kiss during their alone time and Lace (we’re not sure which one this is), loses her shit when she finds out. Lace says she’s upset that Ben got a different Lace on the first night. I think she means drunk Lace.

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Meanwhile, back at the mansion, the one-on-one date card arrives and we get to see just how wide Olivia can open that trap of hers. Everyone simultaneously pauses their TVs in shock and awe.

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Back to the group date where Lace and Ben are almost “eye fucking,” according to her. No kiss though because he’s actually terrified of her, and rightly so. Lace loses her shit again when Jubilee cuts in on her with Ben, saying “fuck these bitches” and complaining to the group about not getting any time with Ben.

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I’m a little scared of Jubes too. She and Ben also kiss.

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Lace interrupts Ben and someone with the line “I’m not crazy I just need some more time.” It’s never a good idea to refer to yourself as crazy multiple times to someone you’re trying to convince that you’re not crazy.

Everyone hates Lace because she sucks. 

JoJo and Ben go up to the roof where Ben tells JoJo he’s feeeeeeeeeling her and they have the most romantic kiss of the date and she emerges as the one to beat.

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Ben tells JoJo “thank you for sharing with me,” which I think we can all agree on is the lamest line as we all cringe in unison, then gives her the group date rose.

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Jubilee is suicidal when she finds out.

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Lace is close to a psychotic break.

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Ben is, of course, a huge Kevin Hart fan, shocker. He also announces that “Ice Cube has done everything from acting to rap.” There’s no way Ben could recite even one line of “Givin’ up the nappy Dugout,” sorry.

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Cut to a depressing scene with Amanda Facetiming the kids she’s abandoned. 

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One of the twins has a French tip manicure which should mean immediate disqualification.

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We’re already finding out that what Ben has in good looks is not matched in personality. 

On their date, Ben and Caila get to know each other whilst their food sits in front of them, getting cold. This drives me insane.

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Later we find out that Ben also has bad taste in music when his favorite musician, no clue who this dude is and too lazy to Google it, shows up to play the standard private show trope for the couple. Ben sings along. At the end of the date there’s kissing. Caila is in the running.

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On the next group date to a “love clinic” we learn which of the girls present have physical chemistry with Ben. Olivia, who is the worst after Mandi and Lace, scores highest with Ben on the chemistry test. Her already large ego becomes a character.

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 Ben told Samantha she smelled sour. I feel this is the kiss of death for her.

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Later that night in Ben’s hotel room, which Olivia announces “is awesome,” they make out. when she returns to the group she tells the other girls that “if Ben is a big believer in science, I’d be a little nervous.” She’s the wooooooorst.

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Amanda breaks the bad news to Ben about the two heavy pieces of luggage she travels with in the shape of two small children but he kisses her anyway.

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Ben predictably gives Olivia the group date rose, causing Amanda to shed the first tears of the season.

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Ben needs to lay off the hair gel.

Olivia announces that Ben is hers at this point, saying, “He’s my man.” Amanda throws some shade her way. She then interrupts Ben and Leah who are done talking anyway so they can make out some more.

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Lace takes Olivia aside for a chit chat and we get to observe two crazy idiots facing off.

Lace has begun talking about herself in the third person as she begins to spiral. I’m thinking alcohol is the common denominator here.

She then takes Ben aside for the 15th time and tells him that she has “a very bold personality” and is “a lot to handle” and that she has “a part of her that she’s working on.” Ben is now legit terrified. Olivia and Lauren H. listen from below the balcony.

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They are interrupted by another girl, prompting Lace to go into full-breakdown mode in her interview, saying, “the Lace I promised myself I would not be came out.”

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Ben gives Lauren B. a photograph of the two of them on the night they met as a token to assure her that he’s into her. Lauren B. will be one to beat.

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Amber still hasn’t had any time with Ben, which I don’t really understand because they’re filming all day, how can you not talk to him for at least ten minutes? Seems like bad time management to me.

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Ben and Amanda, the esthetician with the baby voice, make hair barrettes for her brats. Definitely not Ben’s idea.

The rose ceremony is intercut with Lace’s breakdown. This is cheap trick becasue we all know that the producers of this show aren’t letting Ben send both Laces home just yet.

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L.B. gets a rose but tells Ben that she’s going to bounce, making room for Amber to stay. He might’ve blown that one but plenty more fish here.

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Jackie and Mandi go home rose-less and love-less. And the field begins to thin.

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The Bachelor Season 20 Recap: Episode 1

GUESS WHO’S BAAAAAAACK??!

Yes, it’s really handsome, really boring Ben Higgins, a top three reject from Kaitlyn’s season. Ben is from small town Indiana, still talks about high school sports he played and is super close with his parents – he called them in the middle of filming the arrivals, waking them up to tell them it was going “great!” – all red flags. He’s nice, he’s handsome and that’s all you need to be for bitches to fight over you on this show.

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During the exciting pre-amble, Bachelor Ben sits down with some other Bachelor alums – Sean Lowe (biggest dag and self-proclaimed virgin prior to penetrating his wife on their televised wedding night), Jason Mesnick, who proposed to one of the finalists from his season and broke up with her at “The Women Tell All” to tell the woman he’d previously sent home that he made the wrong decision and meant to propose to her, and Farmer Chris, who proposed to Whitney at the end of his season and broke things off 3 months later after appearing on Dancing With The Stars. Advice is swapped and Melnick sweats through his shirt.

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The first impression rose goes to Olivia, 23 but looks 33, news anchor, who tells Ben she gave up a great job to come be on TV with him. Hashtag romance. She’ll be one of the ones to beat.

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As you probably know, the first episode is about meeting the female contestants and judging them harshly. As they pile out of limos onto the ever-wet driveway we see what’s in store for Ben, and more importantly, for us.

Some highlights:

I just want to start by saying that I don’t like calling girls “crazy” just to be funny, it’s a tired label. However, if a female is legit acting crazy she gets the title. This season that title goes to Lace. Yes, her parents named her after some fabric and that may have contributed to her current state of unbalance. There’s always one girl who drinks too much, throws shade all over the place, makes disparaging comments about the other contestants and is way too intense with the man prize. Ladies and gentlemen, like so many before her, meet Lace.

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Laura AKA Red Velvet. Her whole identity is that she’s a redhead. No one gives one, lady. Also she appears to be missing a neck. Sadly, Red Velvs doesn’t make the cut.

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Tiara, a really basic name, is a “chicken enthusiast,” and has framed photographs of her pet chooks in her home. Doesn’t make the cut.

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Mandi the dentist plays the roll of the “kooky girl” who seems a bit insane. She’s this season’s Ashley S., arriving with and wearing for the entire night a giant paper rose on her head. Mandi also gives Ben his first on-the-mouth kiss after talking to him for like a minute. Agressive.

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Lastly there was Meagan, 30, cowgirl. Huh? She didn’t fit the mould really and on top of it she brought a mini horse with her, into the mansion. She doesn’t make the cut, shockingly.

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After the typically harrowing first meet and greet cocktail party where Ben spends 5-10 minutes with each contestant and then has to rule out the ones he doesn’t have a connection with, after literally hours of filming he hands out roses to:  

Lauren B., 25, flight attendant and my pick to go the distance. Her happy place is the beach. They seem like a perfect match to me, a basic match made in heaven/on TV. 

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LB, 23, fashion buyer. Blah, won’t last long.

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Caila, 23, software sales rep. She and Ben have the same boring job and seem like a good match. 

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Amber, 30, bartender and Bachelor veteran, appearing on Chris Soules’ season as well as last summer’s best show, Bachelor in Paradise. At 30, she’s one of the oldest competing and quite frankly, should know better.

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Jami, 23, bartender. Basically just a younger, Canadian version of Amber. I fear there’s not a whole lot going on upstairs with this one.

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Jennifer, 25, “small business owner” – too vague for me. She’s tall like Ben so they have that in common.

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Jubilee, 24, “war vet” – 24 seems young to be labeled a war vet. Also, that sounds un-sexy. Jubes has neck/titty and upper thigh tattoos which is exciting.

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Amanda, 25, esthetician and single mom of two small girls. Could go the distance but in the end I feel like Ben won’t want to take on someone else’s kids – read: who would? Also, she thinks her kids are “the most amazing kids ever.” Sorry to break it to you but your kids are very ordinary, like pretty much all kids.

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Joelle, “JoJo”, 24, house flipper. I like JoJo, but my first impression is she might be a bit complex for Ben. I think he’ll keep around for the long-haul though.

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Leah, 25, event planner. Blonde, didn’t leave much of an impression. Might be his type though, who knows?

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Rachel, 23, unemployed. This one won’t last. Plus she arrived on one of those stupid hoverboards.

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Samantha, 26, “attorney.” She just passed the bar exam so not exactly an attorney. She won’t last either, too smart.

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Jackie, 23, Gerontologist. Another tall brunette, seems boring.

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Haley, 22, twin. Is there any more reductive a description as being labeled a sibling? Obvious producers’ choice, along with her other half, and playing into what dumb people think is some fantasy about twins. 

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Emily, 22, Twin. They both seem to have identical personalities so far as well and are both ready to “date the same guy.” Oooooookay.

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Shushana, 27, mathematician and apparently only speaks Russian. Producers’ pick for sure.

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Lauren H., 25, kindergarten teacher. People who choose to work with kids are often a little nuts in my experience. Also, that hair color.

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Becca, 26, chiropractic assistant and another returnee from Chris Soules’ season and notorious VIRGIN. I can see Becca going the distance.

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Mandi, 28, dentist. We covered this above. Definitely another producers’ pick. No one’s buying it.

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And last but not least, Lace, 25, real estate agent who owns quote of the night – “Let’s be honest, who wants a fucking virgin?” Poor Becca.

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Lace shows just how crazy she is after she’s handed the last rose and takes Ben to the side to berate him for making her wait until the last rose and never looking at her once during the rose ceremony. I mean she might be over the whole thing now. Ben is already annoyed by this chick. I give her till week 5, for entertainment.

That’s the field going into week one. Place your bets now, I’ll be discussing my picks on the podcast this week!